Wednesday, September 28, 2005

Grace Facing the Family


Two scions of the Mongeau clan are featured with brother Paul. The irrepressible Mike Mongeau, Paul's son, stands front and center, and Katie Crouch, daughter of sister Celeste, is seated to his next. We were about to have a wonderful little Mexican dinner and Mike is on his way to a Cub Scout Den meeting. Katie was working her way through the AZ universities as part of her duties as an editor with McGraw-Hill. Katie's a kind soul and suffered through our brief reunion with humor and grace. Well, you've heard that some family traits skip a generation, right? Grace? Goodness, there's a family trait that's been in mothballs. Heretofore, a graceful moment was when one put a hand through a plate glass window rather than a head.  Posted by Picasa

Sunday, September 25, 2005


Orange honeysuckle blooming in the fall. The bush is just about one-year-old and is maturing nicely. It a mighty favorite for hummingbirds and, of course, flying insects of all varieties. Posted by Picasa

Saturday, September 17, 2005

Victory Songs

Football season—crisp mornings, turning leaves, marching bands, caramel apples, and hot cider. Tucked away in football’s glorious past is the Lansing Michigan Catholic School Junior High Football League. There were six schools that fielded teams. We played on Sundays in September and October.

Priests and dads organized the league. They gathered the equipment, much of it cast off from Michigan State, reserved the fields in city parks, limed the fields, set the schedule, hired the referees, and coached the teams.

The play in the league was uneven. Some schools had a larger enrollment and fielded larger squads, and, as such, usually had a few better players than the smaller schools. I played for Saint Thomas Aquinas, and, in my 7th grade year, we had two kids who went on to play college ball and eventually appeared in two New Year’s Bowl game in same year—one kid started for Michigan and played in the Rose Bowl and another kid caught a touchdown pass for Nebraska in the Orange Bowl.

The games were spirited, if sometimes ragged. We drew a decent crowd of family and friends who cheered us onto victory and consoled us in defeat. Winning was more fun than losing, but losing wasn’t the end of the world. What mattered most was that we were together, we were a team. We belonged to one another for the time we spent on the field.

We would dress out in our uniforms at the school around noon on Sundays, we had all been to early Mass, and we'd either board a bus for a trip across town or hustle across the street for home games. The bus rides to the games were contemplative yet pensive.

STA had a victory song that I leaned when I came to the school in 6th grade. I don’t know how long the song lasted after we left because the Catholic League did not last much longer. It was a boastful drinking song. Where it came from is a mystery. Of course no one on our 7th and 8th grade team drank.

The victory song was most fun after away games. After a victory, the singing would start as the bus pulled out of the park parking lot. All bus windows would be down. We sang long and hard and until we were hoarse.

There’s a moment from those games that has stayed with me all these years. We were playing St. Casimir, a hardworking parish dominated by Polish and Irish and German families, a family friend was playing quarterback for St. Caz—his mother’s obituary was recently published on this blog. In the second half he threw a pass that I intercepted. My timing was perfect, I was headed against the flow of players and broke into the clear along the sidelines. A St. Caz player had the angle on me though, and he lunged for my legs and sent me spilling, ass over teacups, out of bounds.

I rolled and spun and came up, fine for the experience, and gathered my bearings. I looked up and saw the quarterback’s father within a few yards of where I came to rest. He face was set, his lips pursed, and his stare was blank. I’d know him all my life, so I was looking for some recognition. Had I offended him by intercepting his son? Was there something wrong with me?

Fall is coming to the grand, beautiful Sonoran desert. Summer is finally loosening her infernal grip. Mornings are crisp again, the way they should be this time of year. I went and bought a flat of sky blue petunias, the first new plants of my fall / winter garden. I spent some time planting and weeding this morning and thinking about this story. And then it struck me. I understand the look on the the father's face. He was thinking of my dad and how my interception would have put a few more watts in his bright smile and little extra bounce in his already spritely step, and the quarterback’s dad was missing his pal who left us all far too soon.

Oh yeah, I’ve never forgotten the lyrics to the STA victory song, you can sing along too. The tune is “As the Caissons Go Rolling Along.”

Give a cheer, Give a cheer
To the boys who brew the beer
In the cellar of St Thomas School.

They are brave, They are bold
For the liquor they can hold
In the cellar of St Thomas School.

So, its guzzle, guzzle, guzzle
As the beer goes down your muzzle
Shout out our order loud and clear
More beer!

And if Rosie* wants a beer, Say Rosie* have a beer,
In the cellar of St. Thomas School.

Repeat ad nauseum.

* Rosie is Sister Rose Gilbert, the stern and compassionate principal of STA who never met a kid she couldn’t make smarter.

Tuesday, September 13, 2005

Do You Promise to Funk?

Tired of Anderson Kvetcher's take on racial the racial divide? Here's a solution.

One Nation Under A Groove

Lyrics by the redoubtable G Clinton, G Shider, W Morrison.

So wide can't get around it
So low you can't get under it
(So low you can't get under it)
So high you can't get over it
(So high you can't get over it)
Da-yee do do do do do do
This is a chance
This is a chance
Dance your way
Out of your constrictions
(Tell sugah)
Here's a chance to dance our way
out of our constrictions
Gonna be freakin'!
Up and down
Hang up alley way
With the groove our
Only guide
We shall all be moved

Ready or not here we come
Gettin' down on the one which
We believe in
One nation under a groove,
gettin' down just for the funk
(Can I get it on my good foot)
Gettin' down just for the funk of it
(Good God)
'bout time I got down one time
One nation and we're on the move
Nothin' can stop us now
(Aye aye aye aye aye)
Feet don't fail me now
Give you more of what you're funkin' for
Feet don't fail me now
Do you promise to funk?
The whole funk, nothin' but the funk

Ready or not here we come
Gettin' down on the one which we believe in
Here's my chance to dance my way
Out of my constrictions
(Do do dee oh doo)
(Do do dee oh doo)
(You can dance away)

Feet don't fail me now (ha ha)
Here's a chance to dance
Our way out of our constrictions

Gonna be groovin' up and down
Hang up alley way
The groove our only guide

We shall all be moved
Feet don't fail me now (ha ha)
Givin' you more of what you're funkin' for
Feet don't fail me now

Here's my chance to dance my way
out of my constrictions
Givin' you more of what you're funkin' for
(Feet don't fail me now)
(Feet don't fail me now)
Do you promise to funk, the whole funk,
nothin' but the funk
One nation under a groove
Gettin' down just for the funk of it
One nation and we're on the move
Nothin' can stop us now
Nothin' can stop us now
One nation under a groove
Gettin' down just for the funk of it
One nation and we're on the move
Nothin' can stop us now
Nothin' can stop us now
One nation under a groove
Gettin' down just for the funk of it
One nation and we're on the move
Nothin' can stop us now

Do you promise to funk?
Do you promise to funk?
Hah
Do you promise to funk, the whole funk?

One nation under a groove
Gettin' down just for the funk of it
(Here's my way to dance my way out)
Gettin' down just for the funk of it
One nation
And we're on the move
Nothin' can stop us now

Do you promise to funk, the whole funk?
You can't stop us now
Givin' you more of what you're
Funkin' for

Sunday, September 11, 2005

LSU v ASU: Wonderful Game

First, let me apologize for not taking my camera. LSU purple is as vivid as any color on the football spectrum. Playing at night accentuated the color. It was striking.

The game itself was a gem and a hoped for metaphor for the people of Louisiana. LSU won 35-31. They received a few charitable contributions from ASU, such as an inexplicably timed fake punt with such high bothcery on ASU’s end that LSU scored a go-ahead touchdown without breaking a sweat.

The fourth quarter was a classic heavyweight battle. Each team marched and scored to answer their opponent. LSU won the game on a marvelously improvised, perfectly thrown 40 yard strike to a double-covered receiver who managed to scrape one foot in bounds as he flew out of the end zone.

The metaphor for the people of Louisiana? LSU took some of ASUs charity, glady I might add, but crafted their comeback victory on guile, guts, and their superior talent. LSU prevailed just as the people of Louisiana will take our generosity and rebuild their lives.

I work for a company that has a division in NO. The building suffered minimal damage, but the people were scattered with the wind. I worked on a hotline that answered calls from wandering employees and directed them to a temporary work assignment 200 miles north. The company is helping in ways large and small. It was an honor to help. The people were marvelous. Their stories were wrenching. It isn’t my business to retell their stories. I will say this. These people tell a different story than the politicized, hysteria unfolding on cable TV.

I’ve seen many, many college football games in my life. But I haven’t been to any where the fans respectfully applauded both teams as they left the field. If you can find a tape of the game or view the game on replay, do yourself a favor. View it. It is a wonderfully played game and a game that has many winners.

Monday, September 05, 2005


Planted this ruella just over a year ago. It came in a 5-gallon container. In the last year it has exploded into the bush above. The blooms last for the morning then they drop to the ground. A fresh group of blooms is ready to take their place each morning. The blooms are bell-shaped and make a perfect feeding spot for hummingbirds and insects. I sat quietly and watched a hummingbird move from bloom to bloom through the whole bush. When finished, the hummingbird found a branch on the bush and perched for a few minutes. First time I had ever seen a hummingbird be still. Posted by Picasa